Are You a “Kinda Just”y?
800-Pound Gorillas are do-ers. They get up in the morning eager to seize the day, make things happen, take a few licks, get back up, try a different direction, and succeed.
As 800-Pound Gorilla sales professionals-in-training, all of us need to be aware of when we get into the habit of using “kinda just”y language in our conversations with prospects.
“Hi, Jim, this is Bill Guertin with ABC. I kinda just wanted to reach out…”
Kinda-just is NOT self-assured.
Every one of us slides into language modes that give others the impression that we’re unsure, apologetic, or tentative in our approach. Other words that we sometimes get into the habit of using might be:
“Were you thinking about…?”
“Have you checked out…?”
“Is that something you’d be interested in?”
“Um… y’know… I mean… “
As a general rule, people want to do business with others who are self-assured in a way that they themselves would like to emulate. As Jeb Blount so eloquently put it in the title of his book, People Buy You in addition to the product or service you represent… and the language you choose to use is part of the “you” package.
This is not pushy, intimidating, or slick. It’s being comfortable with the language of forward motion, rather than of indecision.
“Here’s the reason I’m calling…”
“What have you done along the lines of…?
“Has ___ been a concern of yours?”
“Let’s each do this…”
“I’d like to schedule a follow-up so that…”
These are the word choices of the dominant players in the market you serve. Adopt them, and more like them, and you’ll be on your way to becoming the 800-Pound Gorilla of your industry.
– Bill Guertin is Chief Enthusiasm Officer (CEO) of The 800-Pound Gorilla, a sales/marketing consultant group that works with companies and individuals to help them become the dominant players in the markets they serve. Clients include many of the ticket sales departments of professional sports teams in the NBA, NFL, MLB, NHL, NASCAR, and more. Reach out at bill@The800PoundGorilla.com with your comments and suggestions.


