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How Being a Mom Has Helped Me in Business

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Date November 8, 2008

by Adrian Miller

For most women, becoming a mother is a turning point in their career. It’s a time in one’s life that’s rife with challenges, frustrations, and uncertainties, but it’s also when many of life’s most rewarding achievements and miraculous moments occur. What many new moms figure out rather quickly is that the skills that they use every day while taking care of children are also very applicable in succeeding in business. Nurturing a needy newborn isn’t all that different from managing a high-maintenance client, and trying to juggle chores and kids can be strikingly similar to the multi-tasking required to manage a large list of prospects. Here are just a few of the skills that are fine-tuned and mastered the minute you take that leap into motherhood.

Patience
Colicky infants, whiny toddlers, defiant teenagers – If you didn’t have patience before you had children, you quickly developed this virtue as a parent. And, the patience required for childcare definitely helps you increase your tolerance threshold in business. Difficult clients and prospects are plentiful, and patience is the key to unlocking their buying potential.

Time Management
As any new mother knows, time can be a scarce commodity and shouldn’t be wasted frivolously. Whether you need to meet a specific deadline or only have an hour before your child wakes from a nap, time management skills are essential to getting things done. Parenthood does wonders for enlightening women (and some men) on the need to budget time wisely, and this skill certainly gives moms a distinct competitive edge over their child-free colleagues.

Multi-Tasking
If you’ve ever changed a diaper while on the phone making a doctor’s appointment, while reading an email, you understand multi-tasking. Sure, we’d all love to be able to focus on one task at a time, but in this age of technology and information, the ability to multi-task is a necessity if you want to be competitive in the market. Motherhood promotes multi-tasking skills tremendously, and these skills remain with mothers long after the diaper changes cease.

Training Skills
One of the primary jobs of a parent is to teach your child what is needed to succeed in the world. This requires you to be a dedicated, skilled trainer. The same skills are required in business. Whether you’re training a classroom of seminar attendees or guiding a client through the sales process, the training abilities you’ve acquired as a mother will certainly come in handy in the business world.

Flexibility
Children are full of surprises, and staying flexible is a necessity to maintain sanity. Everyday is full of challenges and interruptions, and if there is one thing that is consistent about parenting, it’s the fact that it’s ever-changing. Inflexibility doesn’t work for parents, nor does it work in business. People can be indecisive, situations can change, and even your role can evolve. Having the flexibility to gracefully manage the unexpected is a skill that will always serve you well, whether with the kids or in the office.

Adrian Miller is the founded Adrian Miller Sales Training twenty years ago. Since then her firm has worked nationwide across a vast diversity of industries. She is  the author of “The Blatant Truth: 50 Ways to Sales Success” and is currently working on her second book. Adrian Miller Sales Training  programs are highly interactive, entertaining and filled with practical, no b-s techniques designed to help you sell more effectively.President/Founder of Adrian Miller Sales Training. I started the firm 20 years ago and since then have worked nationwide across a vast diversity of industries. I am the author of “The Blatant Truth: 50 Ways to Sales Success” and am currently working on my second book. My programs are highly interactive, entertaining and filled with practical, no b-s techniques designed to help you sell more effectively.

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A Girl’s Guide to Living Fearlessly - #26

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Date October 21, 2008

by Lucy Adams, author of If Mama Don’t Laugh, It Ain’t Funny

” . . . live life as a work of art, rather than as a chaotic response to external events . . .”
–Mihaly Csikszentmehalyi (Bet you can’t say that name 5 times, fast.)

There are days when I wake up overwhelmed by my life; burdened by a daily schedule that allows no time for silently standing still to take a breath and appreciate just where I am in the course of things. No, I’ve got to get four kids out of bed, make sure they’re wearing appropriate school clothes, hustle them downstairs to make lunches and eat breakfast, herd them out the door to school, get them there on time, and get myself to work. Then work, work, work. After that, I run children to soccer practices and games, ballet, the store to get supplies for oh-my-gosh-mama-I-forgot-about-it-and-it’s-due-tomorrow school projects, dentist appointments, orthodontist appointments, youth group, etc. etc. And somewhere in the mix I’ve got to find a minute to cook dinner, help with homework, and have meaningful conversations with the people I love.

My husband and I often look at each other, in that rare instance when we can pull our heads up from the task at hand, and ask, “When did everything get so crazy?” Sometimes I feel like the only thing I can control is the pages of my calendar where I write down all of our obligations. After that, I just bounce from one thing to the next, trying my best to survive the unpredictable chaos that so often defines my existence.

Survival mode, however, tweaks the garden club member in me, who knows that life is more than just responding to turmoil, both inner and external. It’s more than checking off days on the calendar. She makes herself known, rising to the top of my psyche, reminding me, “Lucy, you can lump it or like it, BUT sugah, you chose it. So suck in that bottom lip and learn to enjoy it. No one likes a complainer or a whiner, so make your day the best it can be.”

That’s when the poor, poor, pitiful me, who was ping-ponging through the afternoon gets her come-uppence. It’s no way to live. The business of daily life is only an excuse for not living a beautiful, better existence. And the fearless woman is always living better than anyone else.

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Keeping Business in Tough Times

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Date September 16, 2008

In our present day economy, businesses are constantly looking for ways to cut cost to plump up the bottom line. In these turbulaent economic times, companies are looking for every penny they can find and are putting the squeeze on their vendors. Many of you reading this blog are in a situation where your customers are now price shopping and you are afraid of loosing what once were stable, loyal customers. Unfortunately, many times rash cost cutting decisions will end up costing businesses more in the long run. I am a visual person so I like to create ways to show total program cost impacts to my customers. It is our job to show our customers the difference in “the PRICE” of our products the “total COST” of the program. You must quantify and show these differences to your customer so you can justify the prices you are charging, while arguing that while your price per product may seem slightly higher than your competitor, the TOTAL COST of the program is less, making your products and service more value added for the customer.

Start first with listing the unique benefits of your products and services for this customer. What solutions do they provide, and what financial impact does that make to your customer. Make sure not to miss the impacts of soft costs that might otherwise not be taken into consideration. For example- if you provide an easy to use, closed loop customer service process, this may save your customer time for his associates when they have a problem or a question- Time is money- and should be considered. When you quantify the time savings into dollars your customer starts to see the value in what Great Customer Service does to the bottom line.

Second, gather testimonials, pass satisfaction gathering surveys, customer service logs, pass invoices (to show consistent billing) and build a “proof” tool to show your customer your great track record. Often times the only time decision makers hear about a vendor is when there are problems. If your service has been great, it could be the case that the decision maker hasn’t heard a lot regarding you or your company. You may need to re-enforce with him(her) of the good and faithful business partner you have been.

Last of all, plea your case. After showing the value you bring to their business, and proving your past performance, tell the customer the impact it will make on you personally if he changes to your competition. I am a HUGE believer in letting customers know the impact they make on sales people for the good and the bad. This makes the buying decision personal. It also shows the customer that you care about their business, which most of the time makes it personal for them.

In the end, if you do all this and they still change over price, take solace in the fact that you have certainly made it difficult for the new vendor to live up to the performance record you have highlighted for the customer. Chances are in 3 months, if you take the time to go calling again, your customer will have had time to see that the grass is not always greener on the other side and return more loyal than ever.

Keep your head up- and remember most- “this too shall pass…”

Jodi Bagwell- aka: Salesmom

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