Don't Rush the Sale, Your Customers are People, Too!
Selling to Humans
Just about every day, in every city in the Country, it would not be uncommon to hear some honking during the morning rush hour. This morning was no different. People were driving to work and getting frustrated, they were stopping for traffic lights and school busses and then the cars in both directions came to a standstill due to a family of geese trying to cross the road.
The remarkable thing was the honking from the people stopped when the honking from the geese started. It was like every person came to the conclusion at the same time that there was nothing they could do but wait for the geese to pass and smile. I saw this as signs of humanity at work. How could you honk at the car in front of you if he would run into a fuzzy little gosling?
What Is in His Head?
In your world of sales, do you ever find yourself pushing a customer to buy without knowing what is in front of him, or what is in his head. That is inhumane. You see, your customers are people too; they all buy or don’t buy for their own reasons. Trying to sell before you know why they buy is both frustrating and in many cases futile.
It also confirms the reputation of a salesperson and ruins it for the rest of us. People like to be treated like the humans that they are, and human people like a chance to talk about themselves and tell you what they want if you would just listen.
Start Getting Your Customers To Buy
You need to be reminded everyday that if you want to be successful in your sales career you need to stop selling and start getting your customers to buy. Jeffrey Gitomer’s famous tag line “People hate to be sold, but they love to buy” should be tattooed to the back of your hand so you can see it every day.
Selling is a very social experience. You know when it is right to push and when it will do no good to honk the guy in front of you. Don’t let “needing the sale” take away your ability of gaining a loyal customer in the future. Take the time to get to know your prospect or customer and find out what they think they need and why they need it. Questions of course are the way to go.
1. Find out from your clients why they use your product or your competitor’s product. Find out how that product benefits the buyer personally.
2. Find out what he really wants out of his job, why he can’t make the move now.
3. What you need to do is find out all that you would if you were interviewing an employee or in actuality your new boss.
Also, don’t be afraid of some Yes or No questions once in a while, followed by a “Why”, you will love to use them too once you have a big pipeline of prospects. Yes or No questions will clean the deck and save tons of time in trying to fit a customer into your sales system. If you are willing to accept a No as really meaning “Not Now” you will feel much more comfortable with any answer.
Remember your customers want to be treated with respect and humanity. They don’t want to be tricked or played. They would stop for some geese too…don’t honk when they can’t move.
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